Let’s be real—we’re way past the era of bachelorette parties being all hot pink everything and sashes that scream “Bride To Be” in glitter. Not judging (okay, maybe a little), but if you’re looking for something that actually reflects your vibe—a little classy, a little chill, and definitely cute AF—you’re in the right place.
Because right now? It’s all about aesthetic bachelorette themes. Think curated color palettes, themed playlists, and group outfits that don’t make your friends feel like background extras in your personal rom-com.
FYI, I’m currently planning my best friend’s bachelorette and yes, we’ve been scrolling Pinterest and TikTok like our lives depend on it. Here’s what’s trending right now, and why these themes are giving everything they need to give.
Coastal Cowgirl: Where Nashville Meets Malibu
Yes, this is still trending. And honestly? I’m not mad about it. If you love beach vibes but also own a pair of boots, this is your sign.
Why it works:
- Effortlessly cool outfits: White linen meets denim and a wide-brim hat.
- Decor goals: Think driftwood signs, soft lighting, and sandy-toned balloons.
- Activities: Sunset horseback riding, oceanside picnics, coastal bar crawls.
There’s something about blending Yeehaw with Yacht Club that just screams aesthetic. Also, the photos? Iconic.
Want to make it extra Instagrammable? Add a fringe photo backdrop and a mini prosecco cart. And obviously: boots are required, but so are shades.
Bonus points if you get a live acoustic guitarist or a custom cowboy hat bar. You’ll win TikTok.
Studio 54 But Make It Bridal
Disco is having a serious comeback (honestly, did it ever leave?), and there’s no better excuse to bust out glitter and sequins than a last fling before the ring.
What you need:
- Color palette: Chrome, silver, pink, black.
- Decor: Disco balls everywhere, LED signs, fringe curtains.
- Outfits: Think glitter, feathers, platform shoes, and oversized sunnies.
- Extras: A portable karaoke setup and a playlist that goes from ABBA to Dua Lipa.
You don’t need to book a club. A cool Airbnb, a Bluetooth speaker, and confidence? Done.
Want to elevate it? Add a sparkly dress code, glitter station, and disco-inspired welcome bags with mini champagne bottles and retro sunglasses.
And yes, please rent a disco ball helmet for the bride. She deserves that energy.
Clean Girl Picnic Vibes
This one’s for the girlies who love Glossier, oat milk lattes, and matcha green aesthetic boards. The clean girl bachelorette is all about looking effortless while being… well, very much planned.
The essentials:
- Neutral tones like beige, blush, ivory.
- Matching silk sets or linen dresses.
- Grazing boards, infused water, and rosé.
- Activities: Aesthetic Polaroid sessions, journaling prompts, picnic tarot readings.
It’s calm, it’s curated, and your Insta grid will love you for it.
To take it next level, add a mini flower-arranging bar, a DIY kombucha cocktail corner, and some mindful moment cards.
You can also add a “wedding vision board” moment. Manifest those dreamy vibes.
Last Disco, But With Pastels
This is not the same as Studio 54. Picture disco, but add soft colors, pearls, and more champagne than tequila.
Signature elements:
- Pastel balloons and disco balls (yes, they exist).
- Fluffy boas in light pinks and lavender.
- Signature cocktails with glitter rims.
- Soft glam makeup, butterfly clips, and heart sunglasses.
It’s girly, it’s playful, and it doesn’t feel like a theme you pulled off a clearance rack.
Want to take it a step further? Hire a mobile bar to serve pastel cocktails with custom names like “Blushing Bride” or “Lavender Love.”
Spa Day Getaway
Okay hear me out: Not everyone wants to black out in sequins. Some of us want to wear robes, eat fruit, and talk about our feelings. (Shocking, I know.)
How to nail it:
- Rent a spa villa or wellness Airbnb.
- Go full zen with candles, oils, meditation music.
- Custom robes and slippers with embroidered initials.
- Face masks, hair treatments, and mimosas.
IMO, this is self-care and celebration. You get to feel cute and not wake up with a pounding headache. 10/10.
Want a little extra? Hire a yoga instructor, bring in a massage therapist, and serve matcha lattes in champagne flutes. Seriously.
And yes, this theme absolutely deserves a custom “relaxation playlist.”
Boho Bash in the Desert
Take one look at any Coachella hashtag and you’ll know where this is going. It’s dusty, it’s flowy, and it’s got just enough drama.
Desert vibe musts:
- Terracotta, rust, and blush decor.
- Tipis or a cool Airbnb in Joshua Tree.
- Crystal readings, henna, or astrology games.
- Wide-brim hats, fringe jackets, and temporary tattoos.
It’s giving spiritual with cocktails, and honestly? I’m here for it.
And don’t forget: fringe EVERYTHING. From jackets to garlands to menus.
You could even book a vintage van photo booth or desert horseback session.
Custom Touches That Work With Any Theme
These aren’t tied to any one aesthetic, but they’ll absolutely elevate whatever vibe you’re going for:
- Polaroid guest book: Let each friend snap a pic and write something weird or sweet.
- Matching socks, slippers, or claw clips: Way more wearable than cheesy sashes.
- Curated playlists: Make one for the trip, one for getting ready, and one for the hangover brunch.
- Welcome kits: Include a mini Advil, snacks, hydrating eye masks, and handwritten notes.
Want to be extra extra? Print a “bachelorette newspaper” with the weekend itinerary, memes of the bride, and inside jokes. You’ll laugh about it for years.
Aesthetic Themes by Personality Type
Let’s be real—no theme works if it doesn’t fit the bride’s vibe. Here’s a quick cheat sheet:
- The Sentimental Type → Clean Girl Picnic or Spa Day.
- The Extra One → Studio 54 or Last Disco.
- The Laid-Back Babe → Boho Desert Bash.
- The Balanced Bride → Coastal Cowgirl.
- The Wellness Queen → Spa Day, obviously.
Build the experience around her favorite things. Favorite drink? Make it the signature cocktail. Favorite color? Make it the palette. Favorite playlist? That’s your soundtrack.
If she’s obsessed with astrology, add a birth chart session. If she’s into books, create a cozy reading corner.
Final Thoughts: You Do You (But Make It Aesthetic)
Listen, there are no rules here. If you want to wear a crown and drink White Claws in a party bus—go for it. But if you’re leaning toward something that looks as good as it feels, these trending themes are your best bet.
The key is to pick something that actually reflects the bride. Is she a spa queen? A disco diva? A clean-girl-core goddess? Plan accordingly.
And don’t stress the little stuff. Some of the best moments happen when things go a little sideways. Like that time we forgot the playlist and ended up singing karaoke from someone’s car speaker. Iconic.
So yes, be extra. But also, be you. Celebrate in a way that makes you feel beautiful, connected, and maybe just a little bit unhinged.
Because at the end of the day, it’s not about the theme—it’s about the memories. And maybe the matching sunglasses.
🙂
